You texted a message to your friend in the middle of your conversation, but suddenly your friend didn't hit a reply even after you have waited for quite a while. You are worried so much and feel depressed and your mind begin to question your friend's passive action.
If you are 'You', what will you do/think?:
Text another message to your friend, forcing to reply right away because your conversation is not finish?
or
Assume that your friend was disagree and become angry with your opinion and in purposely suspend your conversation?
or
Assume that your friend was boring with you and in purposely suspend your conversation?
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Be patient, because in real, maybe these things are what actually had happened to your friend:
Your friend thought that your conversation is already finished, so you didn't need a reply
or
Your friend was in the middle of working on important task, forgetting to text you then
or
Your friend was suddenly out of mobile prepaid and unable to reload immediately, but intend to text you back later
or
some other positive assumptions.
Isn't it useful for us to waste time thinking how angry we are for wrong reasons? How bad we are to think negative on other people. Allah swt has reminds us to always have good opinion on our muslim brothers:
"O you who have believed, avoid much [negative] assumption. Indeed, some assumption is sin..."
(Al-Hujurat:12)
Source:
http://quran.com/49
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